Queen of the Dates

Awkward with a Capital A

By: Queen of the Dates December 28, 2019January 11, 2020

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So Christmas is over and it’s been good seeing family and having a break from dating. I say break but I’m still chatting to a number of potential suitors. Important to line them up for my return. It’s interesting to observe who is remaining in contact and whose laying low waiting for my return, or…

Geek Chic

By: Queen of the Dates December 23, 2019January 11, 2020

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I’ve got just over an hour until I set off for my flight back to the UK and wondered if I could squish in one more story of how my last week has been. I managed to fit in two more dates for the pure hell of it. I actually could have gone on a…

The Role Play Turned Bad

By: Queen of the Dates December 18, 2019January 13, 2021

Uncategorizedaffair, cheating, dominatrix, fantasy, Hinge, husband, marriage, premature ejaculation, role play, the boy, the Portuguese, WellingtonLeave a Comment

I mentioned at the end of my last post that I had a sordid little story to share, one from the past. The guy in question had been in touch and asked if I wanted to see him while I was back in the UK. Well here is the story. I used to be married.…

Red Flags and Warning Bells

By: Queen of the Dates December 14, 2019

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How quickly everything can change in the land of dating. You meet someone, you get on really well. You have an amazing few dates with fantastic interactions in between. You start wondering if this might be your next relationship. And then… something changes. You start making a few observations and realise that all is not…

The Future of the Blog in Jeopardy?

By: Queen of the Dates December 9, 2019

Uncategorizedanxiety, colombian, dancing, getting caught, joking ghost, mexican, pumpkin, The Smoking AccountantLeave a Comment

Wow another fairly crazy week, filled with excitement and a little drama. I’ll start with last Wednesday. The Smoking Accountant and I were getting into a big text conversation going backwards and forwards. I can’t remember how the game came about but maybe with the accountant saying he had some more personal questions for me.…

The Dream Date and the Joking Ghost

By: Queen of the Dates December 4, 2019December 4, 2019

Uncategorizedanxious attachment, Brazilian, first date, funnel dating, mexican, pumpkin, Smoking Accountant, Waiheke2 Comments

After wondering whether the Waiheke date would actually materialise, it all came together. On the Saturday after I had expressed my cold feet, the Smoking Accountant later text me to see how I was going and to put definite times in place. He had left the 30th birthday early so that the date would actually…

The Smoking Accountant

By: Queen of the Dates November 30, 2019December 28, 2019

Uncategorizedaccountant, Brazilian, drinker, first date, mexican, pumpkin, single parent, smoker2 Comments

Wow what a week! No wonder it is now Saturday and all I could muster up the energy for today was lying on a sunbed on my deck. I will start my story with The Mexican. I started speaking to The Mexican a couple of weeks ago. We were meant to meet up before but…

Aggghh… will you stop touching me please?

By: Queen of the Dates November 24, 2019

UncategorizedBrazilian, connection, features, first date, Raglan, sex, surferLeave a Comment

A rollercoaster of emotions today but on the whole a good day. I’ve had such an amazing weekend. A scrumptious three-course meal and wine with a good friend on Friday, sunbathing all day on Saturday and then an amazing contemporary dance show that I watched on Saturday night. Today was D Day or Date Day…

You Slept with a Transexual?

By: Queen of the Dates November 17, 2019December 4, 2019

Uncategorizedhanging out, kinky, Mercury Retrograde, polyamory, transexualLeave a Comment

So in my last story I mentioned Laurence and said that this was a story in itself. So here it is. Laurence and I met on Bumble. I’m actually not sure why I swiped right on his profile. He didn’t have the particular look I go for and his profile mentioned climbing trees, I’m not…

Do I Look Like a Pumpkin to You?

By: Queen of the Dates November 15, 2019November 18, 2019

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On Tuesday I met up with Dave. Dave is 34. Works for a fishing company selling merchandise. We had been texting and speaking on the phone for about a month. Another man who picks up the phone??!!! (Maybe my luck was changing). Out of all the phone call men (him, Brian – who lived far…