Meeting a New Man in the Midst of a Corona Pandemic

I haven’t written any stories for a while. Not because I don’t have stuff to write about but because I lost my joy for it. My main reason for starting this blog was for myself. Free therapy for a woman approaching 40 who STILL has difficulties dating and connecting properly with men. However I was…

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Mr Ferrari Part 2

I was finally going to see Mr Ferrari again. It had been about three weeks and not that much contact in between. I really didn’t know what to expect from this date but decided to be open-minded because we got on well on date one and there was definite chemistry. Mr Ferrari picked me up…

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The Shady Solicitor

I am writing this at a time of great disillusionment. I never want to be one of those women who think that all men are bad or that dating is pointless but I must admit, although on the whole my dates go ok and very few are awful, they don’t seem to be going anywhere…

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The Physiotherapist

Wow what a start to the year. I’ve had such an amazing time seeing friends and family and it feels like a very long time since I have written a story. This one will be a summary of my first date of 2020. Can’t believe all that has happened to me so far and we’re…

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Awkward with a Capital A

So Christmas is over and it’s been good seeing family and having a break from dating. I say break but I’m still chatting to a number of potential suitors. Important to line them up for my return. It’s interesting to observe who is remaining in contact and whose laying low waiting for my return, or…

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The Role Play Turned Bad

I mentioned at the end of my last post that I had a sordid little story to share, one from the past. The guy in question had been in touch and asked if I wanted to see him while I was back in the UK. Well here is the story. I used to be married.…

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Red Flags and Warning Bells

How quickly everything can change in the land of dating. You meet someone, you get on really well. You have an amazing few dates with fantastic interactions in between. You start wondering if this might be your next relationship. And then…  something changes. You start making a few observations and realise that all is not…

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